New York Magic Lab

New York Magic Lab is a new magic themed Instagrammable pop-up. Similar to most pop-ups, it has a ball pit, multiple backdrops, neon signs with a cute cheesy quote, and tons of props. There are a total of 12 different backdrops in 5 different rooms for you to take photos in. 

The space itself is actually very small compared to bigger named pop-ups like MOIC and Candytopia. It’s similar to the Egg House in terms of space and setup; there’s an open room upon entering the front door with multiple backdrops in the same room, with 2 rooms past a curtained wall, and a few more rooms downstairs. They make pretty efficient use of all the space in each area though to provide nice backdrops for all your Instagrammable needs. More space doesn't always mean better quality and experience as evidenced by Candytopia, which was spacious but a big letdown for what it was hyped up to be.

 I stopped by to check it out last Friday before NYCC, first thing in the morning, since weekdays are less crowded and best during opening hours for the best photos without having to be feel rushed because of other guests behind me. I found this to work very well since I always feel terribly strapped for time and end up annoyed when the photos don't come out to my liking at pop-ups. I might start doing this more as scheduling permits for future pop-ups. I just hate waking up early and traveling out from Long Island takes a while...but for the gram, hahaha!

The staff was so nice and so sweet as I took my time looking around and exploring. Checking in was easy and everyone was very patient with us, making us feel very welcome and free to take as much time as we needed. I appreciated this a lot, considering how many pop-ups I attended this year. Sometimes a smaller exhibit is better because similar to indie businesses, they are more attentive and concerned with customer service and your overall experience. They also take into account how they can improve your experience and work towards it.

I do have to note that the ticket price varies, like most pop-ups, whether you attend during a weekday vs weekend, as well as if you attend in the evening when a magician is present to perform. My sole purpose was simply for the gram so if you only need to take cute photos, I'd recommend a weekday during the day for cheaper admission as well as more space and time to take photos without feeling rushed or having to worry about people walking into your photos and having to awkwardly ask them to move. I didn't experience the magic show so I can't comment to report back on that if that's what you're looking for.

I would recommend this pop-up for families and kids. It’s open for another week and a half so if you’re looking for some cute magic themed backdrops, definitely stop by. This would probably be cute for some magic themed cosplays as well, like Zatanna. The Magic Lab is located at 344 W 14th St, alongside the Highline neighborhood so there’s plenty to see and do around here, as well as places to eat nearby after you’re done.

Pumpkin Season

October is here! It’s the month I love the most because I always have a lot going on, from NYCC to my birthday to Halloween and everything else in between! Growing up I loved any excuse to dress up so when I discovered NYCC was simply more days of Halloween, I simply couldn’t say no to participating.

I also have both my dating and my wedding anniversary in the mix to add to the celebrations so literally everything I love happens in October. And this year I turn 30 so I’m basically taking the whole month to celebrate. Hopefully I find time to keep up with my blog during the month during the madness! I’m going to try and keep up so I don’t get backlogged.

I stopped by Harbes Farm last week to pick up a few pumpkins to decorate for my house. I started painting pumpkins a few years back and I do find that I enjoy it a lot, since I can’t carve for the life of me. Painting also helps them last longer as well so I can display these all through til Halloween and then some. Right now, pumpkins and apples are in season so there’s plenty to choose from, especially so early in the season. The farms even have fresh pumpkin ice cream which I really wanted to try but I’m currently focused on meeting my goals so I held back for right now. The cheat is not worth setting me back. Especially since NYCC is literally days away and I don’t want to compromise all my hard work.

Despite being a summer child, I do love fall fashion. I love wearing boots and I just got a new pair of thigh high boots that were on sale at Aldo and they look absolutely amazing on my now leaned out legs. I don’t feel like I’m trying to suffocate my calves anymore squeezing them into tall boots. And the leaning out helps make me appear taller on my 5’2” frame. I’m still wearing dresses and skirts regardless of what season it is, so they definitely look great with these boots. I’m looking to pick up some more cute long line sweaters and cardigans since I rarely wear sleeved tops. A simple witchy hat is also really cute for the fall season. I’m dying to wear all my cute black ankle boots too.

I love watching The Nightmare Before Christmas during Halloween time. It was one of the first movies me and my husband watched together when we started dating and I found it really cute that it was a love story. I’m also the weirdo that likes to watch Mean Girls all year round and it also happens to fall under the Halloween category for me in terms of movies, hahaha. Some of my favorite Halloween movies are actually not so β€˜scary.’ I love Casper with Christina Ricci and the Casper and Wendy movie with Hilary Duff. Edward Scissorhands is also another one I’ve always loved for Halloween. Sleepy Hollow. The Craft. A Cinderella Story.

Also with October, we’re basically 2-3 months away from the end of the year! I’m excited because I feel like I did a lot this year. I can’t wait to reflect back and look at everything I’ve done and accomplished. BUT! The year’s not over just yet. Let’s see what more I can squeeze into these last few months. I want to finish strong! So far I’ve lost a total of 23 lbs. Twenty three pounds. I can’t believe I did it. I never thought I’d come this far honestly, considering how many times I’ve failed at my weight loss goals in the past. But you just pick yourself up and keep trying, right? And I’m so proud of myself for not only going below my college weight, but toning out my body to be in its best shape ever of my life. It’s been a really hard journey and a lot of work and determination. It was rough, not gonna lie. But it was definitely worth it. I love where I’m at right now and it really does help push me further and keep me focused.

How are you doing on your goals? Are you close to finishing? Did you grow this year? Did you work on yourself? What are you waiting for?!

Disappointed.

"Sometimes we expect more from others because we would be willing to do that much for them."

 I feel really disappointed lately. At first I was mad. Then bitter. But ultimately I think the true feeling I'm feeling is simply disappointed and that's why I really feel hurt. 

Sometimes I feel like I'm to blame. Maybe I do too much for others. To the point where they become dependent on it and/or take it for granted. They think you will always be there. They don't worry about putting in effort into the friendship because they think you will always be there. And they're not exactly wrong. It's like I never learn my lesson. I still would bend over backwards to help a friend no matter how much someone has let me down. I wish I could change this nature. Because how do people learn if you keep letting them get away with being a bad friend? Like rewarding bad behavior so people think it's okay to continue walking all over you and take your kindness for weakness.

I do feel underappreciated a lot from time to time. Especially when you try your hardest to help someone in their time of need.  Or just by remembering small things like making sure everyone is fed and comfortable. I really am the mom friend. And I feel exactly like a mom in the underappreciated aspect as well.

I try to be supportive.  I try to be there. I make myself available as much as I can if someone needs me. I try to check up on people to make sure they're ok. I listen. I offer help.

But what happens when that person who needs help is me? Not everybody has the same heart and you just end up disappointed if you believe they do. 

I wish I could learn to do less. To say no. To slow down. To not give people everything. But it's not in my nature to treat my friends like that. I'll always want to help them as much as I can. My parents are like this and taught me this. So did Rocco. 

I do a lot for people and I think I just wish people would in turn, turn around and do the same for me when I need it. I don't even ask for much when I need help compared to what I do for them. I'll still try to accommodate people best I can to not inconvenience them when I ask for help. It's just really disheartening watching those you love turn around and put more effort into other relationships instead. 

This is really my own fault. I need to stop investing my heart in those relationships. If they don't care, why should I? If I don't matter as much to someone, why should I continue caring about them? If they're not going to make the effort, why should I? Because I'm a sucker and I'm always going to be here when people come running back and need me. As hurt as I am sometimes I will always stand by to pick up the pieces when your whole world shatters. I wish I had a blacker heart sometimes. It would be easier to not get hurt. I wish people knew and understood how I felt. I wish people would understand the gravity of their actions or lack thereof, and it's impact on people. Sometimes you just don't mean to, but what you do or don't do, hurts the most.

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