Human's Best Friend

Behold! There is now a dog pop-up in NYC for both dog owners and dog lovers, and well, your dog too if you have one. Unfortunately for me, I do not own one - yet! Similar to the subject of a child, we have yet to decide when the “time” is right. We’re still struggling to get on a regular set schedule aligned with one another, and I’m still too much on the go. But alas, one of these days, I’ll slow down. One. Of. These. Days.

And on top of that, we can’t compromise on what we want. I want a cute little teacup baby while he basically wants a dog the size of a bear. I want something cute and cuddly and he wants something huge and monstrous. Clearly, we are on extreme opposites of the matter. Regardless of what we end up with, like a baby, we’ll probably love it nonetheless. We’ll see what happens when the time comes. And you bet your bottom dollar I have my puppy name picked out.

Anyway, back to the main attraction! I stopped by Human’s Best Friend, the new dog pop-up with my sisters. We got there around 1pm on Saturday and there wasn’t a long line. When we left, the line was down the block with everyone bringing their dog. Word got out fast since it’s so easily visible from the street walking or driving by. Check-in was quick and easy, you sign a waiver, they go over rules and you enter in small groups a few at a time so it never feels congested. It also gives the dogs enough space to play freely the way they allow people in a few at a time. It is a one-way experience, however. Once you leave a room, you can’t go back, only forward until you come full circle. And they don’t precisely time you but you are limited on time so that people behind you get their own chance to come in. I would say, you’ll probably spend about 30-45 minutes inside on the experience.

Oh yes, and if you don’t have your own dog, there are adoptable babies there too for you to play with, from local rescue organizations. And of course, everyone else’s dogs that people bring in as well, so long as the owners/other guests are okay with it. Always ask!

We played with both other owner’s dogs and the rescued babies and they were all so sweet. A lot of them are hams! They are just ready to pose it up or melt into your arms and force you to love them forever.

The actual space is small compared to other major pop-ups I’ve been to, but still pretty big for what it is, and has tons of room for all the dogs to run around in freely. And the time lapse in between each entry helps to make it so. There are plenty of cute photo ops all over the spaces for you and your dog and each room is gated so no one space gets congested. They have people in each room to make sure it’s ok to move onto the next space, in case the dogs don’t play well with each other. They also do their best to separate the big dogs from the small dogs when entering, for safety reasons.

The rooms are really cute. The entrance looks like a dog house and leads to a living room couch, with a cute dinner table and toilet seat fire hydrants. From there you walk into a purple room with glitter bones hanging from the ceiling. There are treats in this room for the dogs, which I thought was really nice for the pop-up to have. (They were supplied by the Ollie company, which I found is a brand dedicated to making healthier food for dogs, basically ‘cleaner’ ingredients, and they can tailor it to your dog. They’re also an online only brand though so it gets delivered straight to your door.) From there, you go through the rainbow bridge into a room with a pool full of squeaky toys. The rainbow bridge was really pretty but a little loud so I found some smaller dogs sensitive to loud sounds were not particularly fond of it, while other dogs ran up and down the bridge to their delight. From that room, you walk into another room with a different pool of toys. This room had 4 different walls for you to take photos from, with different splashes of color. The last room before re-entering the room with the dog house gate has a big ramp for dogs to run up and down.

The wall opposite the ramp has the pop-up’s mission statement displayed, basically explaining the pop-up was designed to celebrate dogs and bring people in to help rescue and adopt more dogs. There are so many dogs out there in need of a home and once you see that adorable face, how could you not? I see the main idea and it’s a really great way to get it done. Pop-ups are really trending right now and it’s a great tool to leverage exposure of rescue dogs in need of a family to take them home and give them some much needed love, attention and care. And for once, this is also a pop-up designed to be pet-friendly for those always traveling with their best friend. The rescue dogs are different from day to day as they get adopted and are also from several local animal rescue organizations, thereby giving back to the community when you help out.

So if you’re looking to adopt or if you have a dog already, if you’re in the NYC area this fall, definitely stop by and check it out. Even if pop-ups aren’t your thing, this was super cute. It was fun playing with all the dogs. Just be mindful of your time slot and if the time you choose to come by. If you choose a busier time of day, you may get rushed through the experience to allow for other guests and dogs to come through. But if it’s a little slower, than you can take your time, I’d imagine since there’s no reason to rush you if there’s no one waiting behind you. I was here for about 45 minutes before being asked to leave so that more guests may enter. It’s $29 for just humans to enter, but $39 for you and your pet, which can be quite pricey for the experience and the pop-up’s allotment of time. Tickets are also only available online, not at the door since it’s all time slotted entry, not first-come, first-serve. Don’t expect to be able to walk in if you walk by the area and decide you want to just walk in. The weekends definitely get busy since more people are out with their babies on the weekends and time off.

If you go though, have lots of fun and remember to give some love to the adoptable pups too!

Nine Eleven

Do you remember where you were? Were you born yet? 

It's crazy that this year marks the 17th anniversary of the September 11th attacks. For me, this is a memory, but for today's youth, it will be a history lesson. 

I remember exactly where I was. I was in 8th grade, William Paca Middle School, watching all the other kids get pulled out of school mysteriously. No one really knew the gravity of what had happened, or what really did happen just yet. We heard the that the towers had been hit, and that parents were panicking as they frantically came to sign their kids out of school early. My mom didn't drive at the time and my dad was at work but being Asian, I don't think my parents knew that's what you would or could do.

I came home from school regularly and saw my mom staring at the tv, trying to make sense of what had happened. It still felt surreal even when I saw it replayed on tv over and over. Why did this happen? How did this happen? What's going to happen after this? Is this real life? 

And before this, I had never known about terrorism or grasped the idea that other countries out there may hate the US. I mean, why would they? I had been raised in this country, believing that it was the great land. How could you hate it? But this is before US and European history classes which would come later in high school. I wasn't aware of it all. I was also only 12 at the time. Naive and young. So seeing other countries celebrating what had happened to the US was very confusing and sad. Why would you cheer at someone else's tragedy? I didn't yet grasp that there was evil in the world. That some people just want to watch the world burn. And that some people would hurt others, especially innocents. 

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In the years to come, I would learn that there has been much history of terrorist attacks on the US in prior years. This was not the first, and since then, it's certainly has not been the last. But it has been the one that resonated with me the most because it was so close and I know and have encountered so many people involved in 9/11. In my retail pharmacy days, I had filled for many who were suffering from the aftermath of 9/11, the pain, the trauma, and other long term physical and psychological illnesses that came from it. A lot of friends and colleagues had parents, brothers, family members who participated in the search and rescue teams. 

And today, I asked my followers if they remembered where they were during the attacks and found that a lot of them were very close to the scene when it happened and saw it happen. It's crazy. And a lot of us were in school at the time. Now we're adults looking back on this piece of history. 

I stopped by the Oculus earlier this summer, but I haven't had a chance to actually explore the World Trade Center area yet. I would like to visit the Freedom Tower and the museum one of these days. It's so haunting but beautiful to see those two beams of light at night too, beaming up into the sky. 

I wish I could understand why people do what they do and why they would wish to harm innocent people. It still happens today through school shootings, bombings, gunmen at nightclubs, movie theaters, concerts, etc. There is just no safe place anymore. It's really unfortunate in this day and age the things you have to worry about going into public spaces. Where you think you'll be safe in a crowd of people, may not always be the case. 

This is also another reason why I'm so afraid to have kids. You can't always keep them from everything. Or if you shelter them from too much, what kind of life is that as well? There's just no winning. 

I hope one day we can live in a world where these things don't exist. 

Candytopia

I visited Candytopia a few weeks ago, another ‘museum’ type pop-up experience with candy as its premise this time. I’ll cut to the chase - this was a total IG trap, and unfortunately, not a very good one. After all its advertising, promotion, and social media influences, it was a total let-down.

It’s definitely a place to take cute photos - if you have enough time and room. Unfortunately, with this pop-up, there were a lot of flaws hindering you from getting the best experience. It starts off with the entrance gate. Too many people are crowded around it upon entering so I couldn’t get a nice photo of the gate - no one is really managing this well for people to get the best shot. I should’ve known from the start this was a bad sign. They don’t even limit the number of people entering at once. They simply put you all in a group and space it by time intervals but not by quantity of people so it’s the luck of the draw if the group you’re entering with is a big crowd or a small group. At other well done pop-ups, they limit how many people can go in at one time to not take away from the experience and overcrowd it so you’re waiting too long for a photo op or get rushed because you have to move on with your group. I got rushed at a lot of areas because the group simply had to move on because the doors were closing. And this was a one way pop-up, meaning once you have left a room, you can’t go back, only forward.

Next con, there weren’t really that many rooms in my opinion, at least they weren’t memorable enough for me to think there were a lot of rooms. And in the beginning that little hobbit-like “town” you walk though, is rather quick so you don’t even get to take any pictures there either so there’s a lot of wasted potential from being rushed through rooms. And the rooms seemed poorly put together like there wasn’t a lot of thought put into it or behind it. A lot of it felt really random, there wasn’t much really stringing the rooms together to make any sense of it. It felt like a cheaply put together Willy Wonka wonderland. Like I don’t really understand what Katy Perry’s statue was doing there. And a lot of the exhibits is wasted on these weird candy statues, candy paintings, and a candy car. I mean, I get it, Candytopia so everything’s made of candy, but it was all the same gummy mushy candy so it was kind of gross. There was no sealant or anything over the sculptures so basically everyone’s germs writhing all over the sugar confections. The sculptures weren’t that interesting either, to be honest.

The candy they gave out wasn’t really anything great either. It was all regular candy you can get yourself at the local grocery store. It would’ve been more interesting for them to give out different and unique candy from all over the world or something. Or at least rarer candy you don’t see often. I could probably get better treats during Halloween, actually. But I would say they gave out ample treats throughout the exhibit. There’s about one treat per room and you’re supposed to only take one per room but I’m pretty sure I saw people grab more than a few in each.

I found a lot of guests rude too. Some would take too much time on one photo op so it would take forever for you to have your own turn and in turn, other guests behind you get frustrated too. The workers there did their best to try and move things along but I don’t think they have much experience in handling this. They were nice and helpful as best they could but some people were just downright too rude for them to handle properly as well. You do get a decent amount of time in the marshmallow pit, which was basically the crowning jewel of the experience, but not enough time so that everyone can use the photo op that takes your photo for you and emails it to you. They didn’t have a lot of those either, actually. Like how Color Factory had photo op stations you could scan a QR at? Well, Candytopia only had 3 and they all had extremely unbearable lines so it was hard to get them.

Another thing to note, was the lack of ventilation in this space. It was in a big area but felt like they were skimping in AC. My sister started to feel sick from the lack of proper temperature regulation and had to sit down a few times because she didn’t feel well.

Candytopia is located at Penn Plaza on Penn Plaza at 145 W 32nd Street and tickets are priced at $34 a pop, but in my opinion, this is an experience you can skip. Spend $10 on a big bag of variery Halloween candy instead. There’s not really anything “interactive” about this pop-up and the waiting in line for everything didn’t really seem worth it for the photo ops. I’m not really in love with this place after walking out of it as well but it may have been from having a long hot day walking around the city as well, to be fair.

I would probably place this lower on the list of pop-ups I’ve visited, with the Egg House experience. I mean, go for the experience if you’re curious, but I wouldn’t recommend it. Before I went into it, my Californian friend even told me it wasn’t as great as she expected it to be from the California version and she said MOIC was much better. After my own experience, I would say I agree and that she was spot on. It’s okay but the Museum of Ice Cream was still much better. Disappointing since MOIC has been out forever so Candytopia had every chance to one-up the mother of all pop-ups.

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